
Frequently Asked Questions
What is a family
retreat?
A family retreat is an opportunity for a family
to get away together for a weekend, to spend time alone as a family,
to come closer to God as a family, and to meet others with the same
interests and values. This is a Catholic retreat, so the talks and
activities are based on the teachings of the Church; however, everyone
is welcome to come and be part of “our family of families.”
You can do as much or as little as you like.
Everything is voluntary. The spiritual exercises include talks by
our retreat director (a Catholic priest, who specializes in giving
retreats); celebrating the Eucharist; discussion groups; a reconciliation
service; private adoration of the Blessed Sacrament; praying the Rosary;
and trips to the outdoor shrines. The social activities include sports;
coffee and cake; live contemporary music; and meal time!
What do we need to bring?
Pack as if you were going to a hotel for the
weekend. Each family receives a private room, or two rooms for larger
families, at no extra cost. Linins and towels are provided. You may
want to bring special soaps or other personal items that you may need.
Anyone needing to refrigerate items, like milk or medication, can
use the large refrigerators in the break rooms.
For some, this is the highlight of the retreat.
You will not be hungry this weekend. As you arrive, a tray of soft
pretzels awaits you at the registration desk. Shortly thereafter,
dinner is served. In all, there are five full course meals during
the retreat, and some snacks in between if you like. The coffee pot
is on at 5:30 am. Malvern prides itself on the quality of their food.
They employ at least two professional chefs, and several other experienced
staff members. The meals are “family friendly” such as
pizza on Friday night, pancakes and French toast on Saturday morning,
and an indoor barbeque on Saturday night, with an ice cream sundae
bar to finish things off. If you have special dietary needs, the capable
staff can and will accommodate you. Meal time is a social event at
Malvern. We sit at large round tables and enjoy each others company.
The kids make life long friendships too.
This retreat is spiritual as well as entertaining.
Aside from inspiring talks, and sports out on the lawn, we will have
a contemporary Christian band play at Mass and later at the reconciliation
service. These musicians and singers are fantastic, and they add a
special dimension to the retreat experience. Later on Saturday evening,
a world famous astronomer comes to visit. He presents a wonderful
slide show revealing God’s handiwork in the stars and planets.
The kids are glued to his every word. If weather permits, he will
bring a powerful telescope with him and set it up on the front lawn,
and allow the kids (young and old) to gaze at the stars first hand.
There is no TV or radio in any of the rooms.
There is a TV/VCR in one of the break rooms for the kids to watch
family-friendly videos that they have brought from home (in case of
rain). In 2003, a truly amazing thing took place during Our Lady of
the Rosary Family Retreat. There were approximately 25 children in
attendance, and not one of them…even once…asked to watch
TV the entire weekend! We all had that much fun!
This is a brand new facility, which opened
in the Fall of 2003. All rooms are private. Each family is assigned
their own room. Larger families are assigned two adjoining rooms if
needed. The rooms have a private bath and air conditioning/heating
unit. Each room contains a full and a twin bed. Cots are available
also.
What about activities for the
kids?
The morning begins with a Bible prayer service
around the fireplace. Later that morning, arts and crafts class is
held. This usually takes place during one of father’s talks;
however, your children are more than welcome to stay for the talk.
After lunch it is outside play time. This could include walks; parents
verses children wiffle-ball game; tossing a football, or kicking a
soccer ball.
What age group is appropriate
for a family retreat?
Any age is appropriate. The youngest child
in 2003 was six months old, and the oldest adult (a grandparent),
was 73.
How much does all of this cost?
Everything from your room(s), meals,
snacks, and all activities for a family is just $350. This includes
parents and children. Grand parents are also welcome; however, they
would be charged at the family rate. A $100 deposit is required at
the time of reservation, and the balance is due upon arrival. You
can pay by check or credit card. Unless you wish to purchase items
at the gift shop, you will not need to take out your wallet the entire
weekend.
What else do I need to know?
This family retreat is a way for you to connect
or re-connect with your spouse and kids. We come together as strangers
to one another, but leave as a family of families. How does this happen?
It happens because at the center of everything we do is Jesus Christ!
He is with us on this retreat, and he is directing us to the Father,
through the Holy Spirit. One of the most profound experiences during
the retreat is the private adoration time that each family has before
the Blessed Sacrament…just you and your family before God alone.
It is truly amazing.
Please give serious and prayerful consideration
to joining us this year.
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